“to Romania and you don't speak, you're like seven years old. You get, you get into a school where they speak English. There's all these new faces around you. You have no friends and you don't even speak the language. Um, I mean, you, you pretty much learn to sort of like adapt and sort of adapt to the new environment, make new friends and yeah you know, start surviving. And then that happens three years later. It happens again. And then two years later it happens again.”